21 days of neglected milk
Posted by matt on August 4th, 2010 filed in UncategorizedAccording to google, there is much research showing 21 days to be a milestone maker in the industry of forging habits, either good or bad. There is probably an equal amount of debate on the matter, but I have set out to establish a habit of committing the first minutes of my alert day to spending time with our Creator. So far this has consisted of reading Romans and the first few chapters of I Corinthians, and listening for The Spirit to speak. This also, admittedly, has involved warding off a new sub-habit of falling asleep in the process. All in all, day 12 has come and gone showing 12/12 on the scoreboard.
For me, I hope it works. So many times in the past I have told myself “Self, from this day forth, you shall not drink milk from the carton again.” Inevitably, I find my lips pressed madly against the jug sucking the liquid down in the hopes that nobody will see me as I rush to wipe the drizzle from my chin and slam the refrigerator door shut before they stroll into the kitchen. Sheesh.
Forever is intimidating, and that means change. Who wants to change who they are? I like to think that I’m OK just the way I am. By forming a habit, you’re simply adding to who you are. 21 days is less intimidating. If I can do this for 21 days, there is hope for a sliver of discipline in me (by the grace of God, naturally), and that if I allow, God can accomplish something in me. Even if it is small.
As a human, and of the male orientation, and arguably ADD at that, I find that I only have about 512 MB of RAM with which to store my habits. My hope is that by cultivating a new habit once in a while, I’ll have less room for the old ones. This is my logic at it’s finest.
Using man’s wisdom to implement a Godly habit: also debatable, but this is my starting point. Thoughts on the matter are welcome.
August 5th, 2010 at 9:25 am
Well said. You write incredibly well.
I’m a big proponent that God didn’t give us a brain for us to waste, so occasionally man’s wisdom is an extension of God’s wisdom. See if it’s working, and adjust as necessary.
zenhabits.net has been a source of inspiration for me on the subject. Start small, enjoy the change, and stick with it.